Iâve always wondered if Cameron Diaz was like the characters sheâs played on-screen you know, kind of bubbly and free-flowing -not the type of girl who takes anything too seriously. After sitting in on a pretty large roundtable interview, I can say she is definitely that girl. When you read or listen to the interview youâll see what I mean.
In the movie The Holiday Cameron plays a woman who lives in
The Holiday is going to enjoy the benefits of its ridiculous cast - all four major characters are being played by big movie stars. While there are a lot of serious Oscar films in the theaters right now, those who want to take a break and enjoy some lighter holiday entertainment will probably dig Nancy Meyers latest.
Sorry⦠I sort of sidetracked there for a moment, back to the interview.
Here is Cameron Diaz, and for all of you who enjoy listening to the audio â here is the link for this interview as an MP3. And if you missed it â here is the Jack Black interview for The
Question - Cameron, this movie is called The
Cameron Diaz - Sure.
Question - And shockingly enough to me who would think that having a big
Cameron Diaz - You know, Iâm not really in any race with anyone. Iâm not really in competition with anyone. So I mean that in a way that I donât think my career or my life is a competition, do you know what I mean? I donât feel like I had to sort of be somewhere for any other reason other than I wanted to be there and I just sort of hadnât found anything that really made me really want to jump into it.
To go back to work�
To go back to work, yeah because as we do when were sort of on the beginning of our career, and were kind of like, I was learning about filmmaking and acting and wanting to sort of just keep the ball in motion I did film after film after film after film which was an amazing experience and I so thankful for it but I got to a point that I was sort of like I donât have a house, I donât have any place to put my bags, I havenât been home, I havenât seen my family, I have no friends you know what I mean. And there was a part of my life that was really going strong but I didnât have this other aspect of my life so much like Amanda [Laughing] but not in the love aspect of it but in life you just have to have a balance and so I just kind of took a little slow down for a little while which itâs been nice. I probably should pick it back up but I really like it.
You have no regrets then?
No, I donât believe in regret. I honestly do not believe in regret. Thereâs, I mean, you have to⦠Iâve always felt that the movies that Iâve made were the movies I was meant to make and the movies that other people make are the movies they are meant to make and if I see something that I admire, I admire it for what that person has done, but I donât get jealous or I donât get envious. I donât believe in envy, at all. I donât envy somebody elseâs life or what their accomplishments, try to concentrate on my own soâ¦
When you went away, so to speak, from your career, you still stayed this sort of figure in the news constantlyâ¦
Thatâs one of the reasons why I went away. [Laughing] I thought that if I didnât do as many films then they would have to leave me alone because my mentality about this business is that this is my job. Iâm talking to yâall because this is my job and this is an exchange that all of us have, you know, we have an understanding about and consented, you know. And I felt like, you know, if I just donât make movies then they wouldnât have any right to my life. And of course, thatâs not the mentality of âthatâ media so. I realized, you know what, Iâm not gonna be⦠if I make a movie or not make a movie theyâre still gonna be there, so I may as well do what I love to doing and keep making movies. So I donât have any plans not to make movies.
Or become a recluse?
Or become a recluse⦠no, I like life too much. The house is too small. [Laughing]
You say youâre somewhat like Amanda in terms of what you discover that âLive for todayâ philosophy which she doesnât understand at all which she comes to the conclusion itâs not a bad thing to have. Is that the conclusion that youâve come to, just to live for the moment?
Iâve always lived that way, yeah. Iâm pretty much⦠Iâm terrible at making plans. [Laughing] I remember when I first started doing press junkets, my first, at The Mask. Every single person asked me, and I think it was because I was newâ¦
We didnât know who you were.
Yeah, exactly so they were like, âTen years from now, what kind of movies do you see yourself doing?â and Iâd be like⦠âI donât know.â Iâm like, I donât know, ââ¦what do you wanna be doing?â and I was like, âWell, whatever Iâm doing ten years from now, I donât know if Iâll be making movies. I donât know if Iâll be doing something completely different. Whatever it is ten years from now, I just hope⦠I want to be happy. Period. And I donât know if it will be making movies that make me happy or if itâs⦠whatever it is, you know⦠I donât know. Milking a cow!â Kind of on a milking a cow trip right now. I donât know why?
Where did that come from?
I donât know. I just think of⦠for some reason I have this imagery of like, five oâclock in the morning, this like, sort of meditatively [pretends to milk a cow] like in meditation. I donât know. [Laughter]
Well, itâs been ten⦠twelve years. How happy are you? And are you surprised youâre where you are?
Well, I have no idea where Iâm at⦠[Laughing] I am very happy, I canât complain, um, although I do. [Laughing] But over all Iâm very happy with everything, you know, life is a journey. You know what I mean? My life is no different than anybody elseâs life. And like, some days Iâve got it all figured out and some days Iâm like, what the hell is going on, you know what I mean? Itâs just like everybody else. You know, thatâs the human experience. The experiences⦠the term of your life may be different and what you go through to have that experience may be different but itâs all⦠experiences is the same.
Is there any particular scene, any particular line that really resonated with you in terms of relationships youâve been in, are in?
Not for me personally as far as nothing relates to me in these womenâs relationships to my own. Other than I know that, itâs sort of, like I said, the circumstances are always different but I think that weâve all spent either too much time in a relationship or not enough time in a relationship. You know what I mean? Thatâs what I think is so great with this film, itâs so relatable. You know, weâve all been through it. Weâve all had both of these relationships. And what it comes down to I think, is that these women have not taken the time to get to know who they are. You know, Amanda canât even cry, that means sheâs completely cut off from her emotions. That means she probably doesnât ever ask for anything or knows how to really give anything over because if she connects to that emotion sheâs gonna lose everything that sheâs been trying to hold together. And Iris doesnât value herself she doesnât know what she has to offer. She doesnât know what sheâs worth, you know. So she letâs somebody walk all over her all the time. And those situations I think are, you know, thatâs the human experience of traveling through this crazy journey of life, trying to figure out how to make love work. And the foundation I think that, love [works] the best from what Iâve seen as examples as well as experiences, you have to really love yourself and know what your worth, what your capable of giving, what you want to receive and know how to be brave enough to be open and to trust people and trust yourself to be able to give and receive those things. So⦠and thatâs what I love about the journey in this film. Obviously itâs a romantic comedy, itâs light, funny, itâs humorous but I think itâs also very honest. And I think thatâs why it works on so many levels. Itâs not this thing where youâre going, âOh⦠That doesnât happen!â we donât end on this movie with these people standing on an alter together. You donât pan off the wedding ring up to, âI do.â [Laughing] Thereâs still the question there at the end of the day. You know, at the end of the film you go, âWill this relationship actually work between these two people?â Itâs not about the end result with them, itâs the fact that these people decided to be open enough to take the chance to take the journey of finding out whether or not theyâre love can actually work for any amount of time. And I like that because itâs not unrealistic, itâs just what we do everyday. Youâre just seeing how it goes.
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There is a very good thing about how Jude Lawâs character deals with being with a woman whoâs successful with her own company.
Well I think that success is all relative. I mean it means something different to everyone. I think that with Amanda, yes, sheâs certainly a successful⦠you know, she makes a good living, she has a big house in Brentwood and we all know how expensive that is. [Laughing] Sheâs got a great wardrobe, she owns her own company. But I think most importantly to her is that sheâs good at what she does and she loves what she does. Sheâs actually successful in something that she loves doing and sheâs good at it. So to me, that is⦠thatâs something that I consider, what is successful now if you do that, you donât always make a lot of money at doing that, you know what I mean? Like there are people who just do what they love doing and theyâre good at it but they donât make a lot of money at it. That could be just as⦠that could cause as much problems with somebody who makes a lot of money doing something they hate doing, you know, they might be envious or feel inadequate to the person whoâs actually accomplishing what they want, you know. So, you canât say⦠in whatâs sort of going to be that wedge in a relationship. But certainly I think that men have a need, an innate need, you know, its breed into them that they have to provide. And then todayâs society, itâs about how much you make and they feel⦠they work constantly. Thatâs their priority, to be responsible for that and I think that the ball is in the mans court in that case, as far as whether or not he allows that aspect of life to be something that gets in the way with a woman. Because a woman actually, I donât believe she should hide who she is, or lessen herselfâ¦
Or feel guilty?
Or feel guilty of hide any of that. She should be who she is and find a man who is strong enough to handle that within himself.
Right.
Just because a womanâs also⦠just because Amandaâs successful doesnât mean sheâs a difficult person that man has to learn how to handle a woman thatâs SO successful because it means something different about her character that sheâs a handful, or something like that. Like I said, I think itâs about the man and his own⦠within himself, whether or not he can handle it.
I donât know, I thought Amanda was kind of a difficult person, sheâsâ¦
Sheâs slightly neurotic.
Yeah.
In some areas but not like⦠sheâs not bad sheâs justâ¦
Sheâs not perfect.
Yeah, sheâs not perfect. But I donât think sheâs like⦠difficult. Thereâs no signs other than⦠sheâs pretty open. The problem with her is that sheâs not ready to connect. You know, so she goes, âCome on in! Okay, goodbye!â [Laughing] âOh, alright, come on! Um, no, no, no!â and thatâs frustrating, you know what I mean, but that doesnât have anything to do with the fact that sheâs successful in what she does. It just means⦠[Laughing] sheâs unsuccessful at what she does as far as relationships go.
Do you think she has a âsixth senseâ about Ed Burns character and how heâd cheat on her? Do you think women have a sixth sense?
I believe women know, for sure. For sure, I think, I think when youâre connected to somebody itâs hard⦠thereâs no way you canât tell when somethingâs off, you know? But as far as that goes with theyâre relationship, I think that itâs not working on so many levels that, thatâs not it.
Infidelityâ¦
Exactly, thatâs not it at all. You know, itâs just, like I said, she doesnât cry. Sheâs clearly not connected. Thereâs no communication whatsoever.
Is it difficult to play? Thereâs a couple of scenes where youâre almost crying and you figure actresses have to learn how to cry⦠was it difficult to play that and not cry?
Yeah. Itâs interesting because, when youâre going through an emotion [Answer is interrupted when Kate Winslet comes in and when she leaves another question is asked]
Are you the type to get depressed or just get over things in regards to relationships?
Ah. I donât know. Itâs like everybody. Iâve been slammed before and then other times itâs like, âYES. This is awesome!â [Laughing] I think you just go through it. Having youâre heart broken is never fun but youâve gotta get over it at some point right?
What advice would you give women?
Well, I say, itâs like Amanda and Iris⦠I think itâs just like everybody ah⦠like Iris and Amanda, it goes back knowing yourself, being connected to yourself, being happy with yourself. You always have to start there first. Itâs really awesome growing up in a very narcissistic society, because [Laughing] they finally figured out that itâs all about us, when all this time they were like, âItâs not about you. But really it is.â [Laughing] So, I encourage you to figure it out within yourself.
What made you want to do this movie?
Nancy Meyers!
Was it?
Yeah,
Did she give you the script or did she just call up and say, âIâve got an ideaâ¦â
No, she had finished the script, actually I read the script.
Can you tell us whatâs going on with the next Shrek?
Shrek the Third will be coming out next year and I will be happy to talk to you about it then. [Laughing] cause Iâm not sure how much⦠first off I donât know a lot about it, I only know my part of it. This film, you know, we do in sections I donât really ever see the other part of the film. But I know the storyline itâs a lot of fun. You guys will have a really great time with it. Theyâre so great over there, they just keep stepping it up every time. Itâs a lot of fun.
Is it weird to you that your best known role is a big green ogre?
[Laughing] Well, in certain circles it is. In the three to ten year olds they know me⦠but, no, I like it. I love Fiona.
What about when people step away from their career and then return with a new image⦠and I was thinking, with you and Kate in this movie, Kate since sheâs been a teenager has always been this Oscar nominated, serious actress even though sheâs blonde and pretty and youâve always been the comedienne and looked upon as the bubbly⦠do you think you are undervalued in a way⦠put on a box andâ¦
I donât think there is anything wrong with that. [Laughing] I donât think that there is, I mean Iâm not going⦠Iâm happy with the things Iâve accomplished. You know, Iâm not ashamed for being a happy, bubbly, funny person. I think thatâs just as valid as being the dark, brooding, tortured, Oscar nominated one, not that thatâs what Kate is, I donât think thatâs what she is at all. But certainly if you want to start putting people on boxes, I donât have a problem with that, I think that itâs great and I donât think that Iâm undervalued because I think that whatever we all offer⦠Iâm surprised at actually that people would want me⦠Iâm honored, Iâm really just honored to actually be in the position that I am and that I get to share that with people so Iâm not going out there going, âI needâ¦â
The
You know, I like to explore a lot of different things and done a lot of different movies and not all of them have been successful in a way that the ones Iâm known for mostly⦠you just, you just do what you do⦠I do it for myself. You know, and movies like this I do for the audience, I want people to go and have a good time and laugh and enjoy it, or else I wouldnât make them.
If you had to trade lives with anyone, who would it be and why?
Um, I donât know. Thatâs a tough question. Iâve been asked it a lot. Every time, I want it to be somebody different just for once. But it always seems that the person that jumps into my mind is Jack Black. [Laughing] I think, ââ¦well, who do I want to be?â and Jackâs there in a blue leotard and a mustache and Iâm like, âWhat would it be like to be that guy?â I donât know... Iâd like to know.
Jude Law or Jack Black or a mixture?
Mixture is awesome. Theyâre both such lovely men by the way couldnât be two nicer guys, and funny, charming and down to earth and professional, respectable and just awesome people. So theyâre great on their own so a mixture of the two⦠forget about it. Itâd be crazy! [Laughing] I donât know if the world could handle that.
Weâre going to talk to Justin [Timberlake] in a couple of weeks for Alpha Dog, and now that heâs acting have you thought about doing something together?
Probably not.
Whatâs your dream holiday spot?
Iâd like to be near the water so Iâm always kind of an islandy girl. Or the mountains, I like the snow. I like both.
Have you ever had a life changing holiday like the one in this movie for these two women?
You know, every time I like to go on holidayâs with a group of friends or with my family, like those holidays are the ones where I come out sort of rejuvenated on another level that I donât get when I go someplace⦠when Iâm with the people that I love and I get to share their livesâ¦our lives together, thatâs always the one that I like and I leave that going, âAh, canât wait to do that again!â
Whatâs the best present that you ever got?
A can of whoop ass. [Laughing] Have you seen those cans of âWhoop Assâ?
Whoop ass.
Yeah! [Laughing]
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